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[Tonkarider]

You are so inspirational Papa4Life!
I can't tell you how helpful - lifesaving - you have been to put this is a different perspective. You hit the nail on the head when you said the walking dead because I am surprised that anyone else feels that way. I am really starting to understand that this DBing is more than just trying to repair a crushed dream, but the only way for me to save myself. I wish I were as knowledgeable as you are, you really have this intellectualized.
I texted my WAH about his daughters cell phone renewal which is on my plan, and somehow the topic of him leaving came up and he texted "You were the one that wanted me to leave two weeks before I left" which is so so far from the truth. I texted back "Don't u remember me humiliating myself begging u to stay when u were dragging the table out of the lounge?" and he texted back "After I already rented a house. It doesn't matter Just let me know what needs to be fixed (at the house) and I will take care of it".
I texted "Maybe we should meet up in some restaurant or something every week or so to go over stuff instead of waiting until I am overwhelmed. I have done my best not to bother u at all - I don't even remember where u live"
He texted back "I told you if you needed something to let me know. I did not tell you to leave me alone, that is what you did"

Isn't that extremely strange when all he kept saying before he bailed was he just wanted to be alone?

I am going to read that last post over and over and over, and not respond to that last text.

Maybe I can hang on for now and eventually crawl out of this hole without going down the drain because of Heaven Sent people like you and others on this board.