I was under the impression that the OM was married...
Nope. Not sure where you got that from. I always thought he was actually single. I guess in his mind he is. lol He's got a girlfriend I know that now. But thats there issues to deal with, not mine. I did text with this morning. I couldnt take my son crying all night long asking for her and all this morning on the way to school saying he wants momma to pick him up. This is the exchange:
Me:When does the show start up again?
W: Schooling today, show tomorrow
Me: No matter how I phrase it or try to cal him down, he cried all nigh and was asking for you all morning since he woke up. If there is anyway you could come see him tonight I know it would make him really happy, Just let me know when you get a cahnce. I understand if you cant. I just cant convey to you how much he is missing you and asks for you
W:I understand. And thats why I wanted him to come and you changed the plan. Let me try because i would really like to see him too but you are now asking basically at the start of the show again
Me:And I appreciate you letting him stay instead of going up there. But thats not something that needs to be discussed right now. Just let me know if you can make it work. Thanks
It definitely got me upset when she said, "I changed the plan" are you kidding me? When I texted her thursday I said, "I am not comfortable at all with S going to show now and would like it if you would let him please just stay with me" Well she still could have come and got him, but she realized why I wasnt comfortable with that and decided to stay up there. I wanted to same something back, but I think I handled as best as i could considering my emotions right now
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
