Originally Posted By: AnotherStander

Hang in there, you're doing well so far it sounds like smile Sorry your W is pushing so hard for D, she doesn't know it but she's nowhere near ready for that yet.


Thanks for the reply! I'm trying! Yeah, I think the STBX is moving crazy fast; within the first two weeks after the BD, she filed, created dating profiles, stopped using my last name, etc.

When I asked her about this, way back when we were talking, she rationalized the quick filing as "well, we have a lot of bills we need to settle." She said that she was planning on leaving earlier in 2012, but held off when my dad died. I was hurting bad, and I said "I wish you had, it would have been easier for me to hate you." I almost wonder if the TRO bullshit is her trying to make it easier for me to hate her. If so, it's not working.

This is her second D, so maybe the whole D thing isn't a big deal to her now. She was separated for years on the first M before she finalized that one.

Originally Posted By: Positivespin
I just hit my 50 lb mark today!!!!!!!!!! 213.2

I remember breaking out of Obese a few weeks back. Im pretty sure nobody ever bragged so much about being "overweight" as I.

Ive learned that people around here post when your about to drive off a cliff. If your stable it can feel like a lonely place- just keep posting because eyes are looking.

How did your workouts go this weekend???


Congratulations! Workouts went great this weekend. I finished Week 2, Day 3 of the C25K. Week 3, Day 1 starts after work tonight. Still lifting, started a new routine last week. Finally switched to free weights for most of exercises now; it's a much greater experience.

Spent 12 hours Saturday volunteering for a local non-profit at their big annual event. (Well, 9 hours working and 3 at an afterparty. wink ) All-in-all, not a bad weekend.

I think the kitchen scale I ordered from Amazon gets here today; looking forward to monitoring my caloric intake with better accuracy. Gotta keep dropping!