Take a deep breath and try to remain calm. What your wife is doing is sorting things out now in her life. People in mlc do not wait until the ink is dry on the divorce decree to do so. People in mlc have been thinking about a new life long before the bomb drop, sometimes 1-3 years prior to announcing that they are unhappy.
She's on a fact finding mission...whether she acts upon what she learns will be another matter. Until that time, continue as you have been.
Keep the focus on you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
