I found out that W has been in touch with a life coach who specializes in therapy to help people move on after marriage into a better life and new relationships.

A bit of a kick in the teeth. Again, just confirms that now matter how hard we try to save R on this side, they are trying just as hard to get out of R the other way. My W is doing a negative version of DBing.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.