Help & Advice Needed Please (Thread 3)

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I have the same fears hotwheelsaust...

Hoping for some advice from the vets if possible please...

These days I'm having very little interaction with Wife. In fact she needed to drop Sons bag off yesterday and rather than knock on the door she just left it outside. When we do see each other it's always pleasant...

Is there any way to help her come a little closer - or should I just continue to distance myself in hope that she inches a little closer?

JOURNAL:

GAL and 180s are all going well. Have done a few courses over the last few weeks that I've really enjoyed and I continue to spend a lot of time with my friends.

My relationship with Son is excellent - but I'd call his relationship with his Mother fractured... Which I obviously don't want... He swears at her a lot and I know that he blames her. I only speak in positives regarding her around him.

I'm self employed and I've landed the biggest job I've ever had this November - which I'm really looking forward too.

Wife continues to distance herself - I actually feel like I'm co-parenting our Son with her Mum. She doesn't seem interested in anything else apart from her relationship with OM - which she still denies to our Son. She kind of hides him away - and as far as I know they don't see each other during the evenings when she has Son - they work opposite each other though during the day...

Detaching wise - I feel like I'm in a pretty good place. Not great, but ok. Some days the thought of her with OM is very painful other days I just manage to tell myself this is all part of her journey.