Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

Oh, I forgot to add. Apparently W told her mom that I am winning the D. I asked her what that was supposed to mean. She said that I already had a job and I was already doing well for myself and that she was jealous. Then she said something like, "I can't even get a job or take care of myself." The only reason she can't get a job is because she won't put in the effort. Last summer she was trying to find a job. She went around to a few places around town and got applications. Some she would fill out, others she would say she was going to fill them out but never did. Out of the ones that did get filled out I think she only submitted 1 and that's only because it was an online application. She said that she want's to get a job this summer but has taken absolutely no steps to indicate that she actually does. I really don't feel like I'm "winning" anything. I'm just doing what needs to be done.