I don't think it makes you stupid one bit. (It couldn't be, because we know you're one of the smartest cookies on the board!). Seriously, I think you have the most amazing patience and dedication. To think you are going through this limbo day by day...I give you tremendous amount of credit, as well, for giving H the benefit of the doubt. I think that will truly be beneficial. H will feel your faith in him. And I think it's lovely that he and D made you a card.