I considered using the time to just chat, but was afraid I'd push too much. She has a three day weekend trip planned and I'm not at all happy about it. I have a problem of getting in my own way.

We did have to stop and talk some. But most of the time was spent beside each other walking. At one point S6 traded his dirt bike for a bicycle. W asked if it was the only bicycle he had because it was in poor shape. I reminded her that I ran over his good bike several months ago and picked up the junker to get him through to the next one. After a few minutes she remembered. It surprises me how much she's forgotten about the last year.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later