Thanks Urworthy! You always have the right words at the right time. I like how you say this reality right now. That's a great way to look at it. Doesn't mean it's going to be like this or feel like his forever.
Interesting new twist. It turns out that OM does have a girlfriend. I guess he is having his cake and eating it as well. I just don't understand my wife right now at all, but these are her choices and what he is deciding and I can't do anything about it:)


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it