I understand it hurts when you hear your son cry for his momma. As a mom, it breaks my heart to hear it.
And I think you were upset and hurt a bit that she wanted to bring your son around ow. Even though, as you say, you are separated and on the way to divorce - it still hurts.
And sometimes when we hurt we get angry.
I think you feel what you feel. And one should never deny one's feelings.
So, when you are ready, you will need to let it go.
Holding onto it doesnt serve you or your son well.
I promise you that even though he is young, he is sensitive to your feelings and can sense when you are upset or angry though you might try to hide it.
You need to let him see that he gets to be with daddy. And daddy is so happy he gets to spend all this time with him. Make new traditions with him. Snuggle in a favorite chair to read him a book each nite or sing a certain song during bath time each night.
These things go a long way towards making him feel safe and secure.
It isnt going to stop him missing his momma, but, it is going to help him adjust to what may be his reality right now.
I know you cant understand your wife's actions. I think she is struggling right now, too.
This is what she has chosen for now. And while you dont agree, she has a right to live her life. Just as you have a right to live yours.
Make every moment with that little boy count, C. Make new memories, and love him up.
