Also, how can you have an ecaggerated sense of your own abilitues? If you didnt think you can do anything, then wouldnt you say 'no I could never achieve that'. Isnt that low self regard, low self esteem and not belueving in yourself and your ability to shape your destiny?

I was raised to believe I can achieve anything if I set my mind to it. I lost that belief in mysel after a few stumbles and I wife who stopped believing in me. I wanr that back! That is what dbing has made me realize.

I dont think poorly of others! Anyone can be whatever they want to be if they try hard enough.


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017