Intact, I too feel that if my W didn't move in with the EA friend, I would be on a better path to reconciliation. But then I have to think, would I have continued to follow the DB principles and would I have learned to be a better person? Who knows? While I don't have an OM to worry about (unless female EA becomes one), I do worry that the longer the S goes, the more time she is used to being a single person. That scares me a lot.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
