Through my journal I have learned a very important pattern in my wife....
When my wife says " I just wanted to say that you are right" It means that whatever I may be "right" about.....she isnt going to do it.
Last night she "Threatened" me twice by saying that she wont see her daughter ever again. How the F$%K do you respond to that??
Im in the big leagues boys and girls:)
My wife wants me to be fine with her taking my D3 to a mans house for a overnight. That she met a month ago and spent the night with at their second meeting - that she is having an affair on
Because I say "oh hell no" she tells me that im going out of my way to make it difficult for her to have a relationship with her daughter.
My response "There is no reason why you are unable to spend time with your daughter other then your unwillingness"
She began crying - left the room, shut the door to her guest room and called OM(which one??????who knows- who cares) and within 5 minutes all I could hear was laughter.
W. commented that she cant compete with the bond I have with our D3
DAMN RIGHT!!!!! I didnt run off
P.S. Today I hit the 50 lb lost mark
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
