Taking a step back-a fresh start

[cbtdad]

Not doing that all. I gave W the choice to bring him up there, I was not comfortable the fact that OM would be there and based on what I heard him spending time with them. I guess we will agree to disagree on W being away from 3 year old for 10 days. I personally think that it is not a good thing, especially when I have to pick up the slack while working as well. W does not work, she has plenty of time to do what she wants. And that's exactly what she does.
Is some if this anger about OM. Definitely, but its not why I am so PO'd right now.
I've know about OM for a month now and it hasn't changed the way I look at things. I guess it's the constant lying. Although you are right. All this is her choice in the end and there is nothing I can do about it.
One of my biggest flaws in M was being controlling/manipulative.
This situation is helping me work on that exact thing.
I would never use my son as a Pawn! Ever!
If I wanted to do that, I could just call her right now and tell her to take care of him based on court agreement. But I won't do that