Thx for the suggestion, but I believe that my wife is beyond opening up her heart to me. She is currently reading "The Great Escape, A Girl's Guide to leaving your Marriage" and was previously reading "Ending your Reationship".

She wants out but I think that with every thing else her in life she has a difficult time with decision making. She is reading these books hoping that they will give her the ability to move on.

I have given her the green light to go, she needs time to process this and confirm whether in fact this is what she wants.