Great ideas, my friends. Thank you.

I've spent the afternoon at the skating rink with two 4 year-olds and a 5 year-old... Talk about self-inflicted torture! I am wiped!

Earlier today Pam reminded me to make a list of things H is doing right... and it is only fair. So there they go:

Things he is doing right:

1. Leaves cell phone on all the time; and warns me when he turns it off and why.
2. Stays home longer in the mornings and comes back early many days
3. Spends lots of time with us
4. Is making plans for trips and fun stuff to do together as far in the future as July...
5. Lots of
6. Calls me unexpectedly in the middle of the day... to talk about nothing or ask what I am doing... and invite me out for lunch
7. Fixes us breakfast nearly every morning (a huge LL for him) and offers frequently to do the carpool thing so that I can sleep a bit longer...

so not everything is bad... I just tend to overlook the positives...


"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"