Nice weekend. Went to church as a family, then lunch with about 15 other church members. I had one lady, who knows things aren't great, ask if we were together again. I told her we were working on it. It must be as confusing to them as it is to me. W and I shared several glances and winks when comments were made at the table that could be taken out of context. It's one of our things that we do.

Came home and watched a movie and played games. W was truly engaged. Playing with both boys and having fun. She even left her cell phone out a few times! Even discussed how S9 used to love to play in the tub and how that gave us a break.

She texted me early this morning to let me know S6 had asked her to wake him up, so I should not. She made it up on time and did it.

How do you you tell the difference between cake eating and a spouse just doing better? Does it change the way you deal with them?


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later