But then my mind is not on my sitch anymorw much, its on the favt that my daughter is getting older and her expenses are going up.
She's three right? Take it from someone with one in college and another close to it, I think you have some time before her expenses start going up significantly. You need to provide for her obviously, but you're not in a place where you need to throw yourself 100% into your business at the exclusion of everything else.
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My free time is spent working on my website, promoting my business,etc.
Sounds like this is your newest thing. You've decided that what your W really wants/ needs is a hyper-provider, so now you're going to throw yourself into that now. Meanwhile, your W is STILL waiting to see CONSISTENT 180's. As 25 says, "consistent actions + time = change your S can believe in". I'm not seeing constistency from you, nor does it seem like you give anything much time to work before moving on to something else.
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And his wife loves and reapects his ambition and dedication to providing a good future for his kids.
That's mind-reading, your sister-in-law could very well be a WAS in the making.
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It may arrogance, it may be ambition and high seld regard. But I think we all have to be true to ourselves and what we want out of lufe.
An arrogant person should be true to themselves? Do you even know what arrogance means? "Having or revealing an exaggerated sense of one's own importance or abilities." Doesn't sound like a positive attribute to me.