Well, if it were me, next time I was there I would go say, "since you don't want these, I'll just bag them up for charity. Then ask the W for a bag to do just that" LOL!
Regarding the cartoon in her office, maybe she is just doing a desperate attempt to hang on to their past. Don't assume it the worst...
I am glad that you stopped by to share the news about your DD with your H. And since you have an established pattern of dropping in at the office, maybe doing it just a little more often, in loving ways, would move things along with W. Make her be the one to question your H's motives to him. Leaves you out of it.
Have you taken a surprise lunch to your H lately? Or stopped in at the end of the day to go out to dinner? Just keep on acting as if. See what happens. Tell him it is your effort to keep the romance alive to do these fun and spontaneous things.
I am glad you stopped by though, I haven't posted much on my own thread lately either. My H and I are on a plateau - a good one, but a plateau none the less. I am determined to just keep nudging along.
I hope your D is doing well. My D9 is playing for the championship in hockey this weekend. CAn you believe it? She is having a blast. Meanwhile, the backyard rink is almost history as we have had a warm streak. THere is always next year.
Hang in there. Don't rush to assume - don't let your imagination or frustration lead your thoughts.
Keep a smile on your face, in your heart and in your voice.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
