Today is a big day for us. W is coming home after her long weekend away and I will do my best to make her feel welcome and listened to. Hopefully she is up to reconnecting tonight over a glass of wine, but 0 expectation.

On her way back she will be seeing her OB. During BD, when she was explaining things to me she said that she didn't know what was going on, maybe her hormones were off, and what would I think of her going to see her OB for her annual, but also to do some blood work. I said great, call her right away and she did. She is there right now and I believe that in addition to the blood tests, she is getting a prescription for a low-dose anti-depressant. I know from our therapist (and no shock to all of you) that she has been going through some level of depression last few months. HAve any of you had experience with your MLCer going on these? Neither of us has ever taken them and I am not sure if it is a good thing or bad thing.

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"