I would like some help with some guidelines. I misunderstood about communication, and now I am responding when she initiates, rather than never acknowledging her. It's now actually hard not to reach out myself once the communication has started a bit. But still wondering if it's ok for me to keep silent on such communiques such as: "Well, I talked to a lawyer here who can medeate for us. The many things we need to still decide are childsuport and debt" If she chooses to move forward, I'm willing to collaborate on terms, but I don't want to give the impression that I will agree to a mutual divorce. I don't want to go along with her without her doing all the work (including the thinking). But I don't want to seem passive-aggressive by being silent.
