2.4, I hear something in your point that I have thought a lot about. We are here spending tons of time, thought, and emotional stress trying to figure out our moves. MLCers on the other hand can just prance throughout our worlds thoughtlessly throwing grenades, then be unhappy when we do one thing out of place. Not saying that will change, just that it is awfully frustrating when it happens. Kind of like we have to study lines and stick to a script for our role in the movie, no deviation allowed. But MLCer can ad-lib their role and we have to be the one that makes it work.
Hang in there and focus on what you can control.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"