Great advice Miz. When she comes home tonight, I will focus on active listening to the details of her weekend. And as she talks about moving there, intead of discussing whether we can or can't, I will focus on asking her why in more detail.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"