PON... that happened yesterday, how are things now today? any better?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
She back to quiet mode. Got lots of good txt and phone support from my EE experience today. It is a mood disorder for sure. For some reason after 4 months I thought I was in clear from this crap. From the support I reviewed they made me realize my comments do not justify this punishment . That she has to start owning her emotions and not to put them on me. It is draining. It also turns it on and off. In other words she isn't cold and quiet to kids. Just me. Thx for reaching out . Not matter what my options are no different from yours. Accept it, change it, or leave it. I'll continue to detach , gal, and be the best Dad there is. Day of baseball tomorrow. With kids now this y I fight the fight
sometimes its just so draining.. and I never signed up for this or claimed to be a strong person. ((HUGS))
I am glad you got validated by EE people. Like me, you need to remove yourself from her emotions/anger, etc.. and just let it be. Its sooo tough not to get baited into it.
I hope you still view yourself at the door to piecing... I guess in a few days you will be able to know? (based on how she is??)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
the more i read your sitch wfm the more I think my W is in some sort of MLC or mood disorder. I mean one comment in the wrong tone (per her) about me taking kids to vaca house and she is out of M again. So annoying and frustrating
oh really? doesn't seem to take much to set them off huh? How were things over the weekend? what did YOU do this past weekend?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
No. I don't have any expectations that she will. She continues to be disconnected, quiet, and cold. It is a beautiful situation in which I will embrace with DETACHMENT and GAL. I see it as an opportunity. This is as I head butt a wall and punch a door
sorry to hear PON... more time & patience are required. Was she home all weekend?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
