You have received lots of great advice re. your H - protect yourself, let things flow, don't overthink, don't mind-read, detach, go dark... Yet, I still see you completely focused on HIM.
You know we are here to support you - your sitch is not easy at all and we want the best outcome possible for you. Yet all we hear about is your H. I for once would love to hear about NLW...
What do YOU want?
What would you like to see happening in your life 6-months from now, 1 yr. from now, 5 yrs. from now?
What are you doing to get there?
What GAL activities are you currently doing? Today? This week, this month? What else do you have planned to do differently to enrich your life in the near future?
Let me get to know NLW better... I know she is a wonderful person and as a friend, I'd love for her to share more with me of what is good in her life and what her dreams are!
(((((((NLW)))))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
