Now: I'd still very much to reconcile. I've had a hard time detaching. It's like the phantom limb syndrome that amputees have where they swear their limb is still there.
LOL! I've never heard it put quite that way You're not yet 4 months since BD, it does keep getting easier with time. Hang in there, you're doing well so far it sounds like Sorry your W is pushing so hard for D, she doesn't know it but she's nowhere near ready for that yet.
You're not yet 4 months since BD, it does keep getting easier with time. Hang in there, you're doing well so far it sounds like 
Sorry your W is pushing so hard for D, she doesn't know it but she's nowhere near ready for that yet.