Went to MIL house to pick up some more clothes for son since I will have him all week now.
MIL asked me why I was getting stuff and I just told her W has decided to stay up there and leave son with me. She seemed disappointed, but didn't really say much.
MIL does not know about OM and I don't think it's my business to tell her.
That's up to W if she wants to share that.
I did tell her about the marijuana in the house because I do think she has a right to know about that since its her house. She said I do not allow drugs in my house. I told her I know and that's why I'm letting you know.

Still having urges to go off on W, but holdin strong. I'm angry for sure, but seem to be doing a much better job not reacting to it

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it