I agree NLW to stay detached for now. This is a whirlwind of behavior, actions and words being thrown at you. Get your shield up, detach and watch and observe.
If it simply means he is around for the kids, and can feel more comfortable around them, then better for the kids.
Its still his ride...
((((((((NLW))))))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home