Take the hits and keep moving forward.

[Papa4Life]

Amen, FL. I think that's the way to go as far as your response, T1000 (although I wouldn't use the phrase "happy you are honest with me" -- she knows your not happy, so maybe "I appreciate your honesty" would be a better choice of words.

But then make it clear that you need time and space right now. It's good for her to have some space, because you know she's really considering the implications of this. You need to get off these boards for today, go work out and watch GoT (please, no spoilers, I'm not caught up yet either!) and then let your emotions settle down a bit.

We're here for you if you need us.