Take the hits and keep moving forward.

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I obviously don't know what was going through her head so I can't say for a certain but she probably felt wanted and loved (or liked) by this guy. If I remember correctly she wanted to end this marriage in the first place because she felt so lonely? Oh I'm sure this guy was so nice to her, comforted her and made her feel she was wanted. We are so weak and dumb sometimes we fall for an act like when we feel lonely you know. Don't get me wrong.. I still wish she had been strong but she wasn't. But others are right. If she didn't want to save this marriage she wouldn't have told you the truth I don't think.

I remember few years back my H's friend's wife slept with a guy she worked with, he kicked her out and then forgave & took her back. Now they have a beautiful daughter and seem to be very happy together. EVERYONE who knew about it thought that was it. The husband's best friend defriended her because of that. But to everyone's surprise he took her back. And he didn't do so for the sake of their kids because at that time they didn't have kids.