Originally Posted By: wishing, hoping
Weird. My guess is since the D was granted he feels some sort of relief. Of course I am no expert but that's my gut. Interested to see what others say.


I agree. There's nothing like D to take all the pressure off a WAS.

Originally Posted By: longrun

Is it time to roll down the shutters or open the door a crack?

Neither. Detach and lead your own life with your kids.


I agree with this too. Your H is reaching out, but that doesn't mean he wants to reconcile. More likely he thinks he's accomplished his "goal" of D, so now he doesn't feel the need to remain cold/ distant.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57