Weird. My guess is since the D was granted he feels some sort of relief. Of course I am no expert but that's my gut. Interested to see what others say.
I agree. There's nothing like D to take all the pressure off a WAS.
Originally Posted By: longrun
Is it time to roll down the shutters or open the door a crack?
Neither. Detach and lead your own life with your kids.
I agree with this too. Your H is reaching out, but that doesn't mean he wants to reconcile. More likely he thinks he's accomplished his "goal" of D, so now he doesn't feel the need to remain cold/ distant.