You know RT, I found that I had to truly let go to begin again. It seems that when you make that decision that things fall into place. Can't guarantee it's the place we want, but that jigsaw begins to form a picture, whereas before it was a bunch of jagged little pieces.
I think your P is a lot like my H. He doesn't like to hurt me either, so would lie or evade. Once I told him I was letting him go to be happy, in whatever form that took, it was only a month later that he and GF ended R.
I think that the happiness and calmness we project, whether "as if" or truly at peace. Don't know about you, but is a combo sometimes for me!!
Things sound positive, but the hardest thing I have found is adjusting my new self to the new situation lol!! So continue treading lightly
