Oh well, I don't care, I'm just weking because of the kids.
Whoops, typo. I meant to say I'm "wondering" because of the kids. It might seem mean to them if papa doesn't call mama to wish her a happy b-day.
Originally Posted By: T1000
Would she actually say that she doesn't care if she didn't care?
Could she be telling you why she asked you to go (for the kids) so it appears that your decision doesn't bother her.
That might be why she said it, I dunno. I can't imagine how my not coming to her b-day would be worse than sitting them down in a few weeks and telling them that we're getting a divorce, as she's planning for us to do. Hmm, maybe because when it's her choice she can reconcile it in her own mind but when I it's my decision then it's all about the repercussions.
Sorry, I'm venting. I'll suck it up and give her a quick call later.
Wonder if (suspected) OM will call. Sigh...
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
