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Hi S27

I am sorry to meet you here and hope you make the best of your situation

The reason I am writing is that my sit is much like yours! Me and W are on friendly terms, share house and bed and so on! I got the B in start of march and perhaps you can benefit from my thread!

Sandi2 is as always right and I will state that her rules applied correctly does work! Read the book and Sandi2s rules and do it now! Then read in here. Theres a lot of knowledge about mistakes and successes that you can learn from!

I also changed things at home and started doing a lot more. I like it and she likes it, but it is very important that you do the things for you and not for her! She will see right through you so be honest with yourself!
Look into the 180s and choose carefully regarding two issues:
1. They have to be honest! Choose areas that you honestly would like to do better or different for yourself
2. If you can pick areas that she has been complaining about it will help.

And remember the keyword: Patience!