Take the hits and keep moving forward.

[Papa4Life]

Sorry, T, what I meant was that by using LRT you are validating their feelings of wanting to step back and reconsider their lives and what they want to do with it. So by "moving on", you're acknowledging that they have a right to do that - or at least validating their reasons for wanting to do that. So by saying that you always wanted to stay together, to their way of thinking, what they might hear you saying is that their feelings were wrong and that you knew all along what the right thing was for them to do. Does that make sense? Like I said, I'm just coming to this realization myself, so take it for what it's worth. But, yes, I do think you should let it lie. More for your own sake. Remember, the things that happen aren't the problem, they're just a symptom of the problem.