C, I'm so sorry.

You are right, unfortunately your wife will not hear you if you say the things you want to say.

This is something she has to see through.

Even though your son is so young, he is watching you. If you are ok, then he will be, too.

It is really important right now to show him strength and
let him know he is safe.

Unfortunately, you cannot do anything about your wife's relationship with him. That is hers to forge.

So, be the person you want to be, C.

Leave her to walk her journey. You continue on yours.