Ok, I get this message, but it's still hard - as much as I think I am in a much better place, detachment-wise, than I used to be.
But then He keeps AT ME.
Like today we got D-ed.
So now, 5 hrs later he emails me asking when he can pick up an old broken Jukebox that he's stored in our garage.
WHY NOW - after all this time?
And of course my mind rushes to the question of what on earth he is planning to do with it. Where will he put it? It's broken and ugly and HUGE.
And he also asks when I will let him take the broken-down car so he can get a quote to fix it.
On this pont I feel paralysed - if he takes the car, i know (from previous info that we both have) that the advice will be it is not worth fixing (transmission).
As the car is in his business name, I suspect he will then trade it for scrap cash. Which he will keep.
He defaulted on a debt collection arrangement that he had to enter into recently to pay for the previous repairs on this vehicle, so WTH is going on?
If I refuse to let him take it for a quote however, he will argue in court that I won't let him fix it. The car issue is a slated for immediate discussion at the next court date as the judge saw it as a big problem for me and the kids to be left without one.
Damned if i do and damned if i don't again.
If I go to L for advice, I blow another $1000 - maybe more than the car is worth!!!
But anyway what sort of person sends this sort of email on the night of a divorce?
One who is really wanting to check out completely of any further contact I suppose.
