I can do the no responding thing but why am I doing it? I think her reply is defensive and I can see why she would go that route. She feels attacked so she is trying to convince herself or me that she was not in the wrong. I think wether she was wrong or not is subjective, I think she was but I'm the hurt party. She sounds like she is also trying to communicate how she feels.
What is going dim going to achieve? I need to not attack her but ignoring her doesn't feel right. I know DB is counter intuitive and I understand going dim/dark when a boundary is being crossed or to increase mystery and I understand keeping quiet if all I'm going to do is pi$$ her off. I know that it could turn into an argument if i handle it badly.
She says it's done, she has apologised if she has hurt me and she possibly wants me back. How does going dim help?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
