Haven't been here for a few days. I am glad that you were able to have a R talk, however brief it may have been.
I agree with water - your actions and thoughts will be reflective of what is going on inside of you. I am not just saying this, I am living it.
Last Tuesday, I put aside my misgivings and uncertainty and greeted my H with lightness and laughter. I got it in return. It set the tone for the rest of our evening and week.
I know you have been down this road before, but the road is newly paved, reopened after being closed for construction. Give your H the chance to take action. What have you got to lose? It won't hurt any more or less by letting go and trusting him to do what he says he will do.
You are strong, which is great. You are successful, you are a great mom. Just open up the part of you that says "Go for it" and live with the rewards.
You go girl!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
