Help & Advice Needed Please (Thread 3)

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Hi hotwheelsaust - it can be very difficult. I still hate the thought of my W being intimate with OM - but obviously nothing I can do about it.

It's strange really, I think if any outsider or friend looked at my sitch they would tell me there's no hope. Yet I have hope. I have no reason for it other than I believe I have changed and we are parents together which I ultimately believe one day will have significant pull.

As I said I hate the idea of the OM but I believe if my W and I ever reconcile it is something I can get past... time will tell.