BF - thanks! I will be wondering about the joke... I start working in 2 weeks wink

Grace - You are amazing. Always introspective, always trying to become a better you... YOU inspire me!

Journal
Had another great day today.

This morning I created a new killer spreadsheet with some budget / expense projections and plans. I love to crunch numbers and keep track of things; and with this document, I will know exactly where each penny of my money is going. I know - it's really geekish, lol...

I then decided to give yoga a try. My vertigo was not completely gone but the instructor focused on Hatha yoga with mostly flexibility poses. It turned out to be just what I needed!

I then went to buy a new vacuum cleaner and came home and vacuumed for like an hour and then did a deep steam cleaning. My carpets look like new - I love having a clean house! (Which will last for exactly two days before the girls spill something or S2 drops his cheerios - lol...)

While I was shopping H texted me to share something cute the girls were doing. That was the first time he initiates a text in who knows how long. We had a nice and friendly exchange and at the end he asked if I wanted to come over to swim with him and the kids. I thanked him but declined telling him I already had plans and told him to have a blast with the kids.

I was surprised by the interaction and invitation, but I don't read anything more to it than it being just that - a nice interaction. I hope we can have more of those in the future, but don't hold my breath. Besides, his L should be getting the agreement doc. tomorrow from my L and I think H will not be happy then.

After the exchange, I was able to put those thoughts aside and continue enjoying my day. I went to mass with my dad and my sister and enjoyed a nice, peaceful time with them. I then went grocery shopping to be ready for the week.

Time to get some rest now... I am looking forward to having my kids back tomorrow!


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D