Hi Sandi, I have been following your posts and also reading your sitch. And finding what you are saying incredibly helpful.

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I used that word "disgust" once, and a LBH was kind of shocked and said I was being a bit harsh. Men need to wake up and realize that she doesn't like you, doesn't want to be in the same room as you, and she sure as heck doesn't want you hanging around her like a love-sick puppy. So why would he pursue a woman who feels that way about him? Why on earth does he think it would change her feelings? All it does is to increase her antaganisim.


Can I ask. How does a WAW / MLCer go from loving, caring and ML in one month, to having a epiphany one day, to disgust and not wanting to be touched etc?

Does it happen as soon as feelings for OM are realised?

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.