You sound burnt out with DB. I've been feeling the same way lately. Some days it just feels draining, I agree. I decided I'm going to focus more on things that keep me happy (working on the house, lately) and less on interactions with XW. Do you have something similar that will raise your spirits?

I'm curious what upsets you about your H talking about doing what is right?

H: 38 xW: 38
M: 16 T: 18
S: 9
BD: 2/2012
W moved out 4/2012
D: 11/2012