Imagine you're on a sailboat. Just let the current take you. Don't try to control the sitch (not implying that you were or are).

Just take it slow. See today as today and nothing else.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017