Originally Posted By: snodderly
From your posting, it sounds like your wife is thinking about where her friend lives. It also sounds like she's thinking out loud about it.

Listen, validate and offer opinions when asked right now. Some mlcers will toss things out to see the reaction of the lbs.

If I were you, I'd leave it alone. If she broaches the subject again, then you can voice your opinion. She may not ever bring it up again, there's no telling what was actually going through her head.


^^^This.

Your BD was Feb 13. There is no way in hell W knows for sure what she wants yet. She's not even sure herself. She's still there with you, right? Your job is to be the best 2.4 you can be, (a 2.5 even grin ) enjoy your life and stay out of her way.

You can't make her stay, but you sure can place more doubts about leaving in her head. Bust On!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl