It will be a long, hard journey for both of you. But right now is the hardest. And remember, just b/c the A was busted doesn't mean you are reconcile. In her heart, she's a WAW.
But you both can survive this crises! Some day she will look at you through eyes of love. Hold onto that thought, okay?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
