BeingMe, You are right, I don't know you, I couldn't pick you out in a crowd of two. LOL All I have to go on is what you post on here. According to what you have posted, you have told us that your H pays little to no attention to you, is rarely home, has told you multiple times he doesn't love you and doesn't wish to be married, you suspect OW or multiple OW. BeingMe, your H is a master manipulator and control freak. He knows how far he can push, and he also knows how to reel you back in. I also think you kinda play into his hands. I think your divorce talk is a way to get him to pay attention to you. Once you start doing that, he comes home a little more and he invites you to do little things with him and before you know it, you have put off the divorce for one reason or another. Guess what happens after that? Your H starts getting more distant and the whole process starts over..... See what I am saying here?
