Take the hits and keep moving forward.

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I am very new to DBing and don't have many answers, but as a WAW who had an affair, I just have to say, don't let this be the reason you give up. When I think about my affair, I feel that it didn't have anything to do with my husband but with me and how alone I felt. It is not an excuse, I just want you to understand that she may have been so wrapped up in her emotions that she couldn't process yours, too. You know from the books that you can get past this if you choose, too. I know you need time to process it but it seems like your wife is putting herself out there and wants to works this out so don't lose sight of that.