I am still waiting on the books to arrive but i have taken the time to read Sandi's rules. Wow.... i have broken plenty of those rules since August last year. I have been desperate to 'fix' things. I guess i will learn eventually. I am still struggling with how i can feel so lonely and empty in a house full of people that i love. I seem unable to see/make the best of it.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014
i have broken plenty of those rules since August last year. I have been desperate to 'fix' things. I guess i will learn eventually. I am still struggling with how i can feel so lonely and empty in a house full of people that i love. I seem unable to see/make the best of it. 
